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William Cary Obituary

William J. Cary
William J. Cary
William J. Cary

April 3, 1939 - October 10, 2017
Born in Brooklyn, NY
Resided in Monroe Township, NJ


William Joseph Cary, 78, went home to his heavenly father Tuesday, October 10, 2017 in his home surrounded by his loving family.

He leaves his wife and soul mate of 56 years, Anna Marie Cary, one of God‘s true angels, perfect wife, mother, and grandmother, Ann Marie Conant; his daughter, William Cary; his son; Donna Cary; his daughter and his son Joseph Cary, 8 grandchildren, 1 great grandchild, many adopted brothers, and countless amounts of friends that were family.

Bill was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY the son of Walter and Marjorie Cary and was a long-time resident of Monroe Township, NJ.

Bill served in the United States Marine Corps from 1957-1963. The Marine Corp took a tough kid from Brooklyn, NY who knew everything and shaped a man that was now disciplined, driven and would become an incredible leader in his civilian life. Bill credits the Marine Corp for saving his life although he had said many times when he stepped on the yellow footprints of Paris Island he thought he made the biggest mistake of his life. He loved being a Marine and he loved his country.

After proudly serving in the United States Marine Corp, Bill soon found he had a natural acumen for technology and would begin a career on Wall Street that spanned over 25 years. “Make it Happen” was his motto. Bill was proud of his career but that pales into comparison to the pride and love he had for his family and friends. Family first was his creed.

Bill was involved in the Monroe Township Booster Club, The Knights of Columbus, Immaculate Conception Church, Hope For The Warriors, Saint Jude, coached baseball and was a life coach to many. He put everyone first and never missed a single moment in his family’s life. “Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff, Don’t Mistake My Kindness for Weakness, I Love You More” were some of his favorite words. He loved golfing and socializing at his golf club, Eagle Oaks. Bill was a man’s man who counted his wealth in hugs, kisses, and smiles.

Visitation will be from 2-5pm and 7-9pm on Friday October 13, 2017 and from 8:15am to:45am on Saturday October 14, 2017 at the M. David DeMarco Funeral Home 205 Rhode Hall Road Monroe Township, NJ 08831. Funeral services will begin at 8:45am on Saturday October 14, 2017 from the funeral home. A Catholic Mass will be 9:30am at Immaculate Conception RC Church, Spotswood, NJ followed by Entombment in Holy Cross Burial Park Mausoleum, South Brunswick, NJ.

In lieu of flowers please make memorial gifts to either St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, www.stjude.org, OR to Immaculate Conception RC Church, Spotswood, NJ.

Ask Yourself Everyday: Did I do the best I could.

Semper Fi




M. David DeMarco Funeral Home, Inc.
205 Rhode Hall Rd.
Monroe Twp., NJ US 08831
Friday, October 13, 2017
2:00 PM - 5:00 PM
Friday, October 13, 2017
7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
M. David DeMarco Funeral Home, Inc.
205 Rhode Hall Rd.
Monroe Twp., NJ US 08831
Saturday, October 14, 2017
8:15 AM - 8:45 AM
Funeral Liturgy
Immaculate Conception RC Church
Spotswood, NJ US
Saturday, October 14, 2017
9:30 AM
Holy Cross Burial Park Mausoleum
850 Cranbury/S. River Rd.
S. Brunswick, NJ US
Saturday, October 14, 2017
11:00 AM


St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
501 St. Jude Place
Memphis , TN 38105
Immaculate Conception RC Church
23 Manalapan Rd.
Spotswood, NJ USA 08884
Memorial Contributions may be made to the Church Building Fund.



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